I’ve never seen one of them admit it, that the chances that they’ll be terrible mothers are in the 90% range. It’s either they’re going to be depressed, despairing cat ladies or terrible mothers, a happy life isn’t an option for them. Why won’t they admit it? And when I tell them this they just double-down. The life you were sold isn’t your fault, isn’t my fault, there are others to blame, namely the ones who determine our belief-system – to think that is democratic is a delusion. So much revenge I’ve had to deal with because I tell them the way they were taught is going to lead to lots of broken children. Just admit it for once. It’s their narcissism that prevents that- rather than be wrong they’d prefer that others spend lives of misery like theirs.