The reason I’m so harsh is because the only ones I want in my general vicinity are those who don’t find any problem with what I say. Otherwise you live in weeds and turn into a weed yourself. The way the ethos is set today, people “systemically” surround themselves with people they don’t like, and call that normal. Different ethoses at play. I don’t want people around me who I don’t like, so I will be as cruel as possible, because the ones who don’t identify with my cruelty aren’t the kind of people I want in my vicinity.